“Someone I know suggested that I stop beginning conversations by asking ‘What’s new?’ and instead try ‘What did you do today?’ It was a good reminder that, even though there is a lot of change happening in my life, that isn’t the case for everyone. I have had better and more interesting conversations since.” — Emily Roberson, Moab, Utah
“You cannot learn anything when you are talking.” — Linda Zimmerman, Austin, Texas
“Walk toward the monster (the pain, the scary thing, the grief).” — Valerie Rosenfield, Oakland, Calif.
“As a retired internist, my best advice is that Covid is still around, so continue to wear a high-quality, well-fitting mask, and get all your vaccinations and boosters.” — Stephen Brenner, New Haven, Conn.
“Notice the signs of loneliness — on the bus, in a queue, in a cafe — and speak to the person. The comment can be simple, such as ‘Beautiful sunny day today’ or ‘Oh, look at that cloud, more rain on the way, I love the rain!’ Or ‘Hope you don’t mind me asking, but what are you reading? I love books.’ Most people don’t turn away. They want to talk and share their lives.” — Carol Macfie Lange, Oxford, England
“I was in a vintage shop with my friend Max and saw a sequined top. I remarked to him that I wouldn’t have anywhere to wear such a sparkly top in my current life but that I would love to. He replied simply, ‘Choose a different lifestyle.’ I’ve thought about these words every day since.” — Monica Tanouye, London
