The number of women over 40 who are having babies has risen steadily over the last 30 years. The challenges a woman may face while trying to conceive after age 35, including age-related infertility and a higher rate of miscarriage, have been well documented, but we want to hear firsthand about what it’s like to raise children later in life, especially for those who had their first child after 40.
In an essay for The New York Times about having her first child at 45, Sarah Dougher wrote:
“As a 54-year-old mother of two young children, I am more patient and tolerant of both my own foibles and the shortcomings of others than I was when I was young — a useful trait as both a parent and a person. I care a great deal less now about what others think of me, but care very deeply about the needs and opinions of my family.”
Did you become a mother after 40, either by giving birth or through adoption or surrogacy? For an upcoming feature and photo essay, The Times wants to know how age has influenced your experience. What do you love about being an older parent? What do you find challenging or surprising?
Fill out the form below, and a reporter may be in touch.
